“It is very tempting to take the side of the perpetrator. All that the perpetrator asks is that the bystander do nothing. [H/she] appeals to the universal desire to see, hear, and speak no evil. The victim, on the contrary, asks the bystander to share the burden of pain. The victim demands action, engagement and remembering.” – Judith Miller
Remember hatred is an addiction that haters (i.e. abusers) always need to return to – they have to have a victim or they can’t function. Let’s make sure they don’t function.