My Concern: a Lack of Hope and Love Due to Serious Conflicts
Conflict, serious conflict, seems to be everywhere. Handling conflicts well is the means to a good life. Bungling conflict, sometimes even one misstep, can be difficult to put right and if you let it, can ruin your hopes and dreams. My twenty years as an expert witness, where I step into the fire of really serious conflicts, has taught me that solutions can be found and love can be restored if we understand that conflict is often hidden so that often we do not see it for what it is until it is in an extreme form and that conflicts are not all the same. It seems to me there are three types, each with its own solution.